Fever in Babies

Fever in Babies

A mum holding a baby after taking it's temperature
A mum holding a baby after taking it's temperature

A fever is the body’s natural response to an illness or infection and is a sign that the body is working hard to make itself better. A high temperature is just one way the body tries to fight off an infection – by raising the temperature it makes it harder for the infection to survive and helps activate the body’s immune system.

Fever in babies is common. This is because a baby’s immune system is still developing and hasn’t had time to build up its defences against the many viruses and bacteria that are all around us. Your baby may get a fever, for example, when they have an infection caused by a virus (like a cold) or a bacteria (such as an ear infection). Infections can happen quite often with some babies and toddlers having as many as 8-10 colds a year before they turn 2 years old!

A fever doesn’t necessarily mean that your baby has a serious illness – but a high temperature does let you know they are sick and need extra care and attention.

Baby’s Fever Temperature

Taking a baby's temperature
Taking a baby's temperature

A fever is when your baby’s body temperature is higher than 38°C – but how do you know if they have a fever?

  • One indication that your baby may have a fever is that their skin may appear red and flushed or they feel hot to the touch
  • You can use a thermometer to check if your baby has a fever. 

The best way to measure your child’s temperature depends on their age and the type of thermometer you have:

Taking a baby's temperature
Taking a baby's temperature
  • Using a digital thermometer placed under the armpit is the preferred way for measuring a baby’s temperature if they are under 3 months of age
Doctor taking a baby's temperature
Doctor taking a baby's temperature
  • If your baby is older and their ear canals are not too small for the ear probe – then an ear thermometer can be used
Dad taking a baby's temperature
Dad taking a baby's temperature
  • Infrared forehead thermometers are quick and easy to use – but can be inaccurate.

If you are not sure, talk to your doctor, pharmacist or Maternal and Child Health Nurse, they will be able to show you the correct way to use your thermometer and answer any questions.

LEARN more about Baby temperature ranges

Fever Symptoms in Babies

While a high temperature can be worrying – it’s important to watch out for other symptoms that may appear at the same time that may be linked to the high temperature or the illness causing the fever.

You may notice a range of baby ‘fever’ symptoms such as:

  • Feeling unwell or uncomfortable
  • Hot to the touch
  • Irritable or cry more than normal
  • More sleepy than usual
  • Vomiting
  • Refusing to drink
  • Feeling chills and shivering
  • In pain

Ways to Manage Fever in Babies

A child with fever

When your baby has a fever there are a few simple things you can do to help them to feel more comfortable and manage the fever, including:

  • Making sure they don’t become dehydrated if they don’t feel like eating or drinking:
    • For babies younger than 6 months, offer extra breastfeeds or the usual amount of formula (if bottle-fed)
    • For babies older than 6 months, keep breastfeeding or bottle-feeding, but you can also offer them water or an age-appropriate oral rehydration solution.
  • Wiping their forehead with a damp sponge or cloth can help to cool them down (use slightly warm water to wet the sponge or cloth). Cold baths or showers are not recommended. 
  • Keeping the room at a comfortable temperature. 
  • Dress them in light clothing and cover them with a sheet if they are shivering or add another layer of clothing.
  • Using age-appropriate pain-relieving medications that are easy to give – such as Dymadon for Babies – such as Dymadon for Babies – help reduce the fever if it is making your baby feel miserable or can help relieve painful symptoms of colds and flu such as a sore throat. Always remember to carefully follow the dosage instructions on the packaging.

When to Seek Help

Doctor checking baby's heartbeat
Doctor checking baby's heartbeat

While a high temperature doesn’t necessarily mean that your baby has a serious illness – it’s important to know when to seek medical advice:

  • It may be hard to tell if the fever is caused by a serious illness in young babies – so if your baby is under 3 months old and has a temperature above 38°C you should see your GP or take them to the hospital emergency department immediately, even if your baby has no other obvious symptoms of being ill.
  • If your baby is 3-12 months old and has a fever – then a high temperature may be a sign of an illness and you should see your GP to get things checked out.

Some symptoms require urgent medical attention – whatever the child’s age – and these include:

  • Being listless or not responding to you
  • Losing consciousness or having a fit (seizure) for the first time
  • Having difficulty breathing.

ALWAYS READ THE LABEL AND FOLLOW THE DIRECTIONS FOR USE. INCORRECT USE COULD BE HARMFUL.

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Fever in Kids

Fever in Kids

A child with a fever
A child with a fever

When you have kids you’ll know that fevers are a common part of life. We’re all surrounded by bugs and germs in our everyday lives and fevers are just one way our bodies try to fight off an illness or infection.

All kids will get a fever from time-to-time – but as they grow older and are exposed to more germs, their immune systems become more developed and they’re likely to have fewer infections and fevers:

  • Children under 2 years may have as many as 8-10 colds a year
  • Children under 6 years may have 6-8 colds a year
  • Adults tend to only have 2-3 colds a year

Kid’s Fever Temperature

A child with a high fever

Usually a healthy child has a body temperature of around 36.4°C to 38°C – once it starts to rise above 38°C it’s considered a high or fever temperature. But how do you know if your child has a fever?

There may be some signs you can pick up on, such as your child’s skin feels hot or their face starts to look red or flushed – but you will need to check your child’s temperature with a thermometer to really know if they have a fever.

There are many different types of thermometers – each measures the temperature in a different way – with some being more accurate than others. The best type of thermometers to use will also depend on the age of your child.

Commonly available types of thermometer include:

Digital probe thermometer
  • Digital probe thermometers (that can measure the temperature either under the tongue or armpit)
Digital ear thermometer
  • Digital ear thermometers
Infrared forehead thermometers
  • Infrared forehead thermometers.

To find out more about thermometers and measuring you child’s temperature, visit How to take your baby’s temperature.

Fever Symptoms in Kids

A fever usually means your child is fighting an illness or infection. Some children appear and behave normally despite having a high temperature, while others may feel uncomfortable and have symptoms such as:

  • Feeling hot or looking flushed
  • Have a headache
  • Sweating or shivering
  • Maybe more irritable or more sleepy than usual
  • May not want to eat or drink
  • Have faster breathing or an increased heart rate.

Ways to Reduce Fever in Kids

A child with fever

Some ways which may help when you are caring for a child with a fever at home:

  • If the fever is making your child uncomfortable or miserable – or if they have other painful symptoms of colds and flu such as a sore throat – then you can try a simple (age-appropriate) pain-reliving medication such as Dymadon for Kids to help reduce the fever. Always remember to follow the instructions about how often and how much to give your child.
  • Dress them in lightweight clothing and keep their room at a comfortable temperature.
  • Make sure they get plenty of rest – which may mean staying home from school or childcare until their temperature is back to normal.
  • Remember to offer them plenty of cool, clear fluids to drink to help them stay hydrated.

When to Seek Help

Dad calling the doctor for his sick child

A fever itself rarely causes harm, because a fever is one of the ways our body fights infection. If your child seems happy and well there is no need to treat a fever itself.

But, with fever in children it’s important to know when to worry – you should always monitor your child for any change in their condition and take them to a doctor if:

  • The fever lasts for more than 2 days and there’s no obvious cause
  • You observe your child is getting worse
  • Your child has a fit (febrile seizure)

You should also see a doctor or other healthcare professional if they have any of the following:

  • A rash
  • A stiff neck or light is hurting their eyes
  • Vomiting and refusing to drink
  • They are more sleepy than usual
  • Have problems with their breathing
  • Have pain that doesn’t get better with pain-relieving medication.

 

If your child is very young (under 3 months old) and has a temperature above 38°C, then you should see your doctor immediately, even if they have no other symptoms.

ALWAYS READ THE LABEL. FOLLOW THE DIRECTIONS FOR USE. INCORRECT USE COULD BE HARMFUL. IF SYMPTOMS PERSIST, TALK TO YOUR HEALTH PROFESSIONAL.

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Sore Throats in Kids and Babies

Sore Throats in Kids and Babies

A child with a sore throat
A child with a sore throat

Sore throats are common at any age. Although they can be upsetting for children, they are usually not a cause for concern and normally get better by themselves within a few days.

Most sore throats in kids and babies are linked to a viral infection – such as a cold or the flu – which is easily spread among children (and adults) either at home, or when they are at school or in childcare. These types of viral infections quickly spread by infected droplets from the nose and mouth through coughing and sneezing.

Colds are very common among young children, as their immune systems are still developing. It can sometimes feel like your child is always getting sick. But the good news is most children will catch fewer colds as they get older.

Sore throats can also be caused by bacterial infections, or other things such as allergies and air pollution.

Signs of a Sore Throat & Other Cold Symptoms

A mum wiping a babys' runny nose
A mum wiping a babys' runny nose

What are the signs to look out for if your child has a sore throat? The obvious one is, of course, that they are complaining of a pain in their throat – especially when swallowing.

When your child has a sore throat they may also:

  • Complain of a scratchy throat
  • Have redness in the back of their mouth
  • Have bad breath
  • Have swollen neck glands
  • Have a fever

A sore throat may be one of the first things you notice when your child is starting to get a cold – with their throat becoming dry and sore a few days before other symptoms are noticed.

Other cold symptoms that are common in children include:

  • A blocked or runny nose
  • Coughing or sneezing
  • Being tired

Fever, vomiting and diarrhoea are less commonly seen with colds and sore throats but can occur with viral infections. These symptoms may also indicate something more serious is going on. If you’re concerned about any symptoms your child has or they are distressing your child, you should talk to your doctor or other healthcare professional.

How to Provide Relief

A doctor checking a childs throat
A doctor checking a childs throat

Sore throats can make your child feel sick and miserable, but there are things you can do to help soothe a sore throat and make them feel more comfortable.

Depending on the age of your child, you could:

  • Let them sip warm liquids
  • Let them suck on an ice-block or icy-pole
  • Older children may also find sucking on a hard lolly helps – but do not give these to young children as they are a choking hazard.

Giving your child a simple (age-appropriate) pain-reliving medication such as Dymadon for Kids  or Dymadon for Babies helps relieve painful cold and flu symptoms, such as a sore throat.

It’s also important to make sure your child rests and drinks plenty of fluids when they don’t feel well.

 Find out more about fever in kids and babies

When to Seek Help

Most sore throats are usually only mild and clear up without needing special treatment – but it is important to monitor your child’s health in case their condition gets worse.

If the sore throat lasts for more than a few days, your child has a fever and is feeling unwell – it’s time to see your doctor to get things checked out.

You need to get medical help if your child has a sore throat and also:

  • Has difficulty swallowing or breathing
  • Can’t open their mouth fully
  • Has a stiff or swollen neck.

ALWAYS READ THE LABEL AND FOLLOW THE DIRECTIONS FOR USE. INCORRECT USE COULD BE HARMFUL.

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What is the difference between a Cold and Flu?

What is the difference between a Cold and Flu?

Got a runny nose and a sore throat? Could it be the start of a cold or the flu? Here’s some basic information to help you understand a bit more about the differences (and similarities) between cold and flu symptoms.

Cold and flu infections

The common cold and flu are both respiratory tract infections (RTIs) and infect the parts of your body that help you breathe – such as your nose, throat and lungs.

  • Cold viruses cause upper RTIs which mainly affect your nose and throat
  • Flu viruses can cause upper or lower RTIs and can affect your nose, throat and lungs.

What causes colds and flu?

Sometimes we use the terms ‘the flu’ and ‘a cold’ interchangeably and although they are both caused by viruses – they are different illnesses caused by different types of viruses.

There are over 200 different types of virus that can cause a cold. With that many cold viruses circulating its hardly surprising that the common cold is the most common cause of illness seen in both children and adults.

Children tend to catch colds more frequently than adults and they may get up to 10 colds a year while adults only usually get up to 4 a year.

The flu, on the other hand, is usually caused by either type A or type B viruses (although there is another rarer type C). Most cases of flu are linked to an infection with the type A virus.

You can catch a cold or the flu at any time of the year – but they are usually more common in the winter months when we tend to spend more time inside with other people. 

Know your cold and flu symptoms

Colds and flu’s can have similar symptoms, but there are some key differences. You will generally see the same range of cold or flu symptoms in children and adults – but sometimes children’s symptoms can last longer.

Cold symptoms include:

  • Coughing and sneezing
  • Blocked or runny nose
  • Sore throat
  • Fever
  • Congestion (pressure in your ears and face).

Typical flu symptoms may include:

  • Coughing (usually dry) and sneezing
  • Blocked or runny nose
  • Sore throat
  • Fever or chills
  • Aches and pains
  • Headache
  • Tiredness
  • Diarrhoea or an upset stomach.

Here are a few tips to help you tell the difference between any cold and flu symptoms you have:

  • Cold symptoms tend to appear gradually – flu symptoms can arrive suddenly
  • A cold mainly affects your nose and throat – you may feel the effects of flu in a lot more places!
  • A cold can make you feel unwell, flu can make you feel unwell and too exhausted to do anything.

You may be able to work out if you have the flu by the symptoms you have and how you are feeling, but the only definitive way of knowing if you have the flu is to get tested by your doctor.

The symptoms of colds and flu can be very similar to the symptoms of COVID-19 so it’s very important to get tested for COVID-19 immediately even if your symptoms are only mild.

Preventing colds and flu

Both colds and flu are very infectious diseases that can be spread through coughs and sneezes, and the viruses can live on your hands and surfaces for 24 hours – you can help reduce the risk of catching and spreading viruses by: 

  • Washing your hands regularly with water and soap
  • Cough or sneeze into your elbow or use tissues
  • Throw any used tissues in the bin as quickly as possible
  • Clean surfaces regularly

The Australian Health Department recommends all people aged 6 months and over be vaccinated against the flu.  Children under 5 years old have a higher risk of getting more severe flu infections that require hospitalisation – and free vaccinations are available for all children aged 6 months to under 5 years.

Relieving cold and flu symptoms

There is no cure for a cold or the flu once you have it – although there are things you can do to help relieve some of the symptoms and make you feel more comfortable, including:

  • Using simple (age-appropriate) pain-relieving medications – such as paracetamol – to relieve muscle pain or if there is a fever
  • Using saline nose drops or nasal sprays to help clear blocked noses
  • Sipping warm drinks can help ease sore throats.

ALWAYS READ THE LABEL. FOLLOW THE DIRECTIONS FOR USE. INCORRECT USE COULD BE HARMFUL. IF SYMPTOMS PERSIST, TALK TO YOUR HEALTH PROFESSIONAL.

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When do babies start teething?

When do babies start teething?

A baby’s first tooth is one of those milestone ‘firsts’ we all eagerly watch for – but when does it all start? And what should you expect when it comes to teething?

What is teething?

Teething is the process that occurs when a baby’s tooth starts to ‘erupt’ and breaks through their gums.

It can be an uncomfortable time for some babies and a worrying time for parents – but knowing a little more about what to expect and what you can do to help your little one find relief from swollen, tender gums can lessen the pain — for both of you.

When does teething start?

The important thing to remember when it comes to timing is – there is no ‘normal’ teething time and every baby is different.

Some babies are born with their first tooth while others don’t start teething until after they are 12 months old – but most babies will start teething at around 6 months of age and a baby is likely to have their first tooth by the time they are one year old.

Did you know that your baby’s teeth start developing in the womb long before they’re born?

Our first set of teeth are called ‘primary’ teeth (but are also known as baby, milk or deciduous teeth) and the first buds of these primary teeth start developing in your baby’s jaw early on in the pregnancy at around the 5-week gestation mark.

When your baby is born they will usually have all 20 of their primary teeth hidden away in their gums – 10 in the upper jaw and 10 in the lower jaw – ready to emerge.

When does teething finish?

For an individual tooth – teething can take about eight days – that’s usually around 4 days before the tooth comes through the gum and about 3 days after.

Most children will have finished teething and have their full set of 20 primary teeth by the time they are 3 years old.

While the timing of teething can vary from child to child, the order in which the different types of primary teeth emerge is more consistent.

The following gives a rough guide to the order and timing of when a baby’s different types of teeth usually emerge:

1. Bottom front teeth (bottom central incisors) 6 to 10 months
2. Top front teeth (top central incisors) 8 to 12 months
3. Teeth either side of the top front teeth (top lateral incisors) 9 to 13 months
4. Teeth either side of the bottom front teeth (bottom lateral incisors) 10 to 16 months
5. First back teeth (first molars) 13 to 19 months
6. Canines (teeth just outside the incisors) 16 to 23 months
7. Second back teeth (second molars) 23 to 33 months

Is my baby teething?

How babies behave during teething can vary. Some teeth can appear without any apparent signs of pain or discomfort while others can leave babies upset or bad-tempered.

Common teething symptoms to watch out for include:

  • Red and swollen gums
  • Flushed cheeks – particularly on one side
  • Ear rubbing
  • Dribbling more than usual
  • Gnawing and chewing on things
  • Finger or fist sucking
  • Being more fretful than usual

Relief for teething babies

It’s normal for a baby to experience some pain or discomfort during teething and most symptoms can be managed without medication.

There are different things you can try to help make your child more comfortable including:

  • Gently massaging the area with a clean finger or cloth
  • Using teething rings or rusks
  • Keeping the area around the mouth and chin dry so it does not become sore or irritated

Teething necklaces are not recommended for babies as they are a choking and strangulation hazard. Teething gels are also not usually recommended as they can contain ingredients (such as salicylates or benzocaine) that are not appropriate for use in young children.

In the case where baby needs a little more help, ask your healthcare professional about using age appropriate pain-relieving medications – such as Dymadon Paracetamol for Babies.

ALWAYS READ THE LABEL. FOLLOW THE DIRECTIONS FOR USE. INCORRECT USE COULD BE HARMFUL. IF SYMPTOMS PERSIST, TALK TO YOUR HEALTH PROFESSIONAL.

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How to take your baby’s temperature

How to take your baby’s temperature

Using a digital thermometer is the best way to check your child’s temperature – but did you know when it comes to taking a baby’s temperature some thermometers are more suitable than others?

Taking your child’s temperature sounds like a simple enough task, but when you have a new baby and are faced with doing it for the first time it can feel a bit daunting. All sorts of questions can start to pop-up into your head such as “When should I check my baby’s temperature?”, “What thermometer is best?” and “What’s a normal temperature?”.

It’s always a good idea to be prepared (before you are in the ‘heat’ of the moment) so here’s some useful information on thermometers and taking your child’s temperature – remember if you have any concerns about when to take your baby’s temperature or how to use a thermometer properly your doctor, nurse or pharmacist can help – just ask.

 

When to take your baby’s temperature

It’s a good idea to check your baby’s temperature if: 

  • Their skin feels hotter than usual when you touch their forehead, back or stomach
  • They feel clammy or sweaty
  • Their cheeks look flushed.

A raised temperature is an important sign that a child may have an illness – other signs to watch out for include:

  • They are irritable or crying
  • They refuse to drink
  • Vomiting
  • Being more sleepy than normal
  • Shivering
  • Being in pain.

If your baby is under 3 months old and has a temperature over 38oC they should see a doctor or be taken to a hospital emergency department straight away – even if there are no other signs of illness – as it may be difficult to tell if anything serious is causing the raised temperature.

 

Baby Temperature Range

A baby’s body temperature naturally varies depending on things such as their age, how their temperature was taken and even the time of day can affect the reading.1 But in most cases, a ‘normal’ baby temperature will be between 36.5C and 38C.

Getting to know your baby’s normal temperature range can make it easier to tell when they have a fever:

  • The temperature for a newborn baby can range from 35.5C to 37.9C
  • Pre-school children tend to have higher body temperatures than older children – peaking in healthy children when they are around 18-24 months of age (when their body temperature can get as high as 38.3C)
  • Body temperature is usually lowest at night and early morning, peaking in the afternoon.

 

What is considered a fever?

Temperature readings can vary depending on which part of the body is used; however, the below readings provide an indication that your baby may be running a fever.

A child is considered to have a high temperature or fever if:

  • The ear or temporal artery (forehead) temperature rises above 38C
  • The oral temperature is above 37.8C
  • The armpit temperature is above 37.2C

 

Types of thermometers

You can easily buy a thermometer either online or at your local pharmacy or supermarket – with lots of different types to choose from – but it is important to look for one that is suitable for the age of your child and to follow the manufacturer’s instructions, so you can get an accurate temperature reading.

Different types of thermometers measure temperature in different ways and the results can vary between thermometers and what part of the body is used.

Most thermometers we use nowadays are digital thermometers and include:

  • Digital probe thermometers – these are probably the most common and accurate type of thermometer and are used to measure body temperature in different ways including:
    • Axillary (armpit) readings – this is considered the most reliable method for taking a baby’s temperature. It is the recommended method for children under 5 years and is where the thermometer probe is placed under the child’s armpit
    • Oral (mouth) readings – here the probe is placed in the mouth under the tongue and can be used for older children and adults.

Taking a baby’s rectal temperature with a digital probe is not recommended because of the risk of damaging the lining of the child’s rectum.

  • Digital ear thermometers – these thermometers read the temperature inside the ear and although this is a quick and easy method it can be difficult to get an accurate reading from a baby’s small ear hole and are not recommended for children under 6 months of age.
  • Digital temporal artery (forehead) thermometers – these use an infrared sensor to detect the temperature of the temporal artery on your baby’s forehead. These thermometers are probably the easiest to use (and with non-touch methods you don’t have to wake a sleeping child to check their temperature!) but their readings can be inaccurate and are not recommended.

Other types of ‘thermometers’ such as fever strips, digital pacier thermometers or smartphone apps are not recommended as they aren’t very accurate. Old-fashioned liquid or mercury thermometers are also not recommended for babies or children because of safety issues.

 

What to remember

Fevers in children are a fact of life and are one of most common reasons parents take their children to see a doctor. 

While it is unlikely the fever itself will cause any long-term harm, a high temperature usually means your child is unwell. You can take your child’s temperature as often as you want to (usually every 3-4 hours) – but it is also important look for other signs of illness as well.

Contact your doctor or go to a hospital emergency department immediately if:

  • Your baby is under 3 months old and has a temperature of 38oC or higher
  • Your baby is 3 to 6 months old and has a temperature 39oC or higher
  • Your child has as a high temperature and displays other signs of illness
  • Your child’s high temperature doesn’t improve within 48 hours

 

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How to survive sleepless nights as a new parent

How to survive sleepless nights as a new parent

Nothing can prepare a parent for the sleepless nights that having a new baby brings. Except for maybe a stint in a special forces commando unit in the army. If that unit was required to exist on little to no sleep for months at a time, whilst simultaneously caring for a small infant and recovering from childbirth. Then it might be close…

The thing is, getting less sleep than you would like is unfortunately just the lay of the new baby land. You need to expect it, prepare for it and get on with it. It’s not pleasant (at all), but it is survivable. Every parent who ever came before you is proof that you can get through this.

Here are some sleep tips to make it as comfortable as possible.

1. Sleep in shifts

Chances are it’s going to be a long time before you get the recommended eight hours of shut-eye a night. You can absolutely exist on less sleep than that, but it’s helpful to make up for it where you can. When your baby is asleep is a good time to be sleeping too, but finding the balance between “sleep when the baby sleeps” and actually having a life can be tricky.

Instead, try having a short sleep when your baby goes down at night, then waking up for some you/partner/Netflix time until your baby wakes for a feed. After that late night feed, you can head back to bed again. You will most likely be woken a couple more times in the night, but the short evening sleep will hopefully make it easier for you.

Mother carrying her baby in cloth baby carrier

2. Take care of yourself

When you’re not getting enough sleep, it hurts. You feel gritty, foggy and slightly unwell a lot of the time. Support yourself through that by ensuring you are eating nourishing, wholesome foods and getting some fresh air and exercise each day. A daily walk with the pram or sling around the neighbourhood is bonding for you and your baby too.

3. Stick to a routine

Routines work wonders for babies, but they are also super-helpful for mums as well.

A strict night-time routine will help prepare your baby for the longer stretches of sleep that you are craving for them. A daytime routine will help you keep on top of everything that needs doing, so sleep can easily find you when it’s time.

There is nothing more frustrating than lying wide awake, desperate to get to sleep before your baby wakes again. A night routine of your own helps remind your body when it’s time to switch off and let things go until the morning.

4. Slow everything down

While you might wish to get back to your “old normal” as soon as possible, doing it in the midst of sleep deprivation is not the time.

Keep things simple and easy for as long as you need. Make relaxing with your baby your top priority.
Be selective about how you spend your time and who you spend it with. Redefine your housework standards and remind yourself that you can return to your old standards when you are ready.

This time in your life and your baby’s life is a temporary thing – even though it might not feel that way when you are in the middle of it. Go easy, be gentle with yourself, conserve energy. This. Will. Pass.

5. Go over all the sleep barriers

Remember, being overtired and too stimulated is one of the main reasons a baby finds it hard to get to sleep. Little babies don’t need a lot of stimulation or “play time”. Feed, clean, cuddle and sleep are pretty much all they need for the first few months. Give yourself the best possible chance of a decent night’s sleep by ensuring your baby is as comfortable and sleep-ready as possible.

A baby sleeping in a cot

A mental checklist is handy – yours will be different to this, because you know your baby and yourself, but something like:

  • Not hungry
  • Fresh nappy
  • Swaddled (if they like swaddling)
  • Dark bedroom
  • Nice and quiet (or white noise or gentle music)
  • Feeling well – no temperature or teething issues
  • Lots of cuddles

6. Make it as easy as possible

Night feeds are tough, night settling even tougher. Make it as easy on yourself as possible. Have a soft night-light in the room, ready to switch on when needed. Have everything you need to feed, change and settle your baby ready to go.

In your baby’s cot, it can help to have a second set of sheets already in place under a mattress protector, ready to go if the sheets need changing. Poonamis have a habit of erupting at 3am …

Work in shifts with your partner, if that’s possible. Keep things as quiet and no-nonsense as possible and do the same thing every time you go in at night.

7. Seek help when you need it

You don’t need to be a superhero about any of this. Just because sleep deprivation is ‘expected’ when you have a new baby, doesn’t mean chronic sleeplessness needs to be endured. Ask for help!

This might mean asking a friend or family member to look after your baby while you get some shut eye (definitely do that!). Or doing a grocery shop for you when you know you are too tired to drive. Or it might mean booking in to see your GP to discuss other strategies.

Remember, you don’t need to solider on alone … not even if you actually did do time in a commando special forces unit. Please, just ask for help!

The information above is general in nature and the opinion of the writer and should not be taken as medical advice.

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7 things we wish we could tell all new mums

7 things we wish we could tell all new mums

Becoming a mum is a transformative experience, but it’s also a steep learning curve. New mums have to learn to care for their baby as they deal with exhaustion, their changing body, fresh family dynamics and a whole new routine. It’s basically an extreme sport, so it figures that a little bit of coaching would come in handy!

Here’s what we wish all new mums could know:

1. Don’t worry about being a ‘perfect parent’. It’s a trap.

Instagram would have you believe that other parents are caring for their beautifully dressed babies in the stylishly furnished rooms of their incredibly neat homes. It may even have you losing sleep over whether to enrol in baby yoga, baby ballet or baby tai chi. Or lying awake wondering why your hair won’t stay in those effortless curls like the other mums. (Hint: Because it’s got some forgotten spit-up in it!)

It’s a great idea to narrow focus a little when it comes to social media and its expectations of new mums. Most of that stuff is smoke and mirrors anyway, so if you vow to avoid the perfect parent trap and be a good-enough mum you’ll do just great.

2. Get out of the house

While it can seem impossible to get both you and your baby presentable enough to head out the front door, managing to do it will pay dividends. Not only can you clear your head away from the chaos at home, but very often babies go to sleep too while you’re on the move – especially if you’re on foot pushing a pram – and you can snaffle some down-time (albeit with snoozing baby in tow) to grab a quiet coffee or wander the shops.

Another good thing about getting out is that you actually feel like you’ve achieved something outside of feeds and nappy changes, even if it was just picking up some chocolate biscuits at the supermarket.

Mother and baby contact after delivery

3. Remember that mums matter too!

When a baby arrives, all eyes are on the little one and mums are sometimes forgotten in the excitement. Of course, new mums and their wellbeing should be paramount at this time too. If mums aren’t doing well there’s a knock-on effect with babies.

If the people around you seem to have forgotten about how you’re feeling, let them know how they might help. And if you’re having trouble communicating the challenges of parenting and recovering from having a baby, you could also chat to your GP or maternal child health nurse about how things are going. They will have ideas about how to best look after you, while you care for a bub. Don’t tough it out or assume you should be managing. It’s a very high pressure job with a vocal little boss!

4. Don’t go overboard buying lots of expensive baby products

It can seem like you need a lot of different products when you have a baby, but take your time gathering up your nursery must-haves. Obviously you need basics like bedding and somewhere for the baby to sleep, a car restraint, a pram, nappies and wipes and clothing. But don’t be too quick to snap up all kinds of random baby items you think you might need. Buy extra baby bits and bobs as you need them … if you need them. Also? Don’t think you have to match the expensive prams or heirloom cots that you see other parents showing off online. Work within your budget and choose what suits your family best.

Mother adjusting the safety straps in the baby car seat.

5. Ignore unsolicited advice

When you have a baby, people come scuttling out of the woodwork to tell you how to raise your child. Before you know it, the neighbour who hasn’t talked to you in the three years you’ve lived side-by-side wants you to know that your baby needs an extra blanket or that their socks are too woolly. Sigh. And it’s not just neighbours. Family members can tut-tut your parenting skills quietly and make you second-guess yourself.

Try to ignore all that noise if you can. Turn to a few trusted people – close family, GP, best friend and/or maternal and child health nurse and chat to them about any parenting queries you may have.

6. Be flexible about feeding

While science tells us that “breast is best”, breastfeeding isn’t always possible. If breastfeeding doesn’t work out for you and your baby, know that your baby will love you and thrive, whether you feed them breastmilk or formula. Care for and feed your baby however you are able, and know that you’re doing a brilliant job.

7. Celebrate the small victories

Sometimes the best part of your day might be when you narrowly avoided getting vomited on by your baby or perhaps those aforementioned chocolate biscuits, eaten sitting on the front porch as your baby sleeps in the pram beside you.

Or maybe it’s managing to sneak out of the nursery after popping your snoozing bub into their cot? There’s lots of small moments worth celebrating each day, and not getting pooped on by a tiny person truly can be a huge win!

The information above is general in nature and the opinion of the writer and should not be taken as medical advice.

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7 growing pains every new parent has to face

7 growing pains every new parent has to face

Becoming a parent for the first time is a bit of a metamorphosis. Before we can really stretch our wings and fly confidently, though, there are a few growing pains we all face.

But these are the things that make us feel experienced, and also able to dish out our own, ‘been there, done that too’ parenting advice.

Here are seven of the biggies that you’ll face with your baby.

1. Early feeding woes

Regardless of whether you breast or bottle feed your baby (or have to do the latter because the former just didn’t work out – you are NOT alone!). Feeding, like sleeping, is something babies need to learn.

This is one of the biggest new parent speed bumps, but once you and your bub get over it, she will be guzzling that milk like a hungry little lamb.

A mother breastfeeding her baby

2. Calling BS on ‘sleep like a baby’

When the onslaught of sleep deprivation really starts to take its toll what day is it and why are my keys in the dirty clothes basket?), you start to wonder what lunatic ever came up with the saying, ‘sleep like a baby’?

Most newborn babies don’t sleep well enough – or long enough – for you to get some really good shut-eye. So you might as well make peace with this early on.

3. Accepting you have a velcro baby

Did you know babies are made of velcro? It’s true! They literally need to be attached to you, for a time, anyway.

Once you accept this adorable, albeit restricting, stage and start wearing your baby, life gets a little easier. You can even pour yourself a bowl of cereal without creating extreme kitchen chaos. Look mum, two hands!

Mother carrying her baby in a baby carrier while dishwashing

4. Surviving sleep regression torture

Yawn.

As if sleep deprivation wasn’t bad enough in the early days, there comes a time when your baby will forget all the good night-time routines and sleep training you have put in place. The night waking starts again (like all night) and you wonder if the days of her ‘sleeping though’ will ever return.

It does. Hang in there!

5. Dealing with a shocker poonami

Here’s hoping this one happens at home, and not while you are in the middle of the shopping centre.

A poonami is actually a series of poos that come in an avalanche – and they just keep building up. Then, before you’ve had a chance to dash to the parent’s room, the whole thing spills out of your baby’s nappy, destroying her cute outfit and slipping out onto the floor, car seat or wherever you happen to be.

Yuck, and face palm.

6. Deciphering teething troubles

Oh your poor little love is teething – or is she?

When those pearly whites first start to inflame her gums, it’s common for parents to not realise that this is the cause of her irritable behaviour, night waking and rosy cheeks.
Your mother-in-law will tell you, of course (like she did BEFORE your baby even was teething). But one day, she will be right and suddenly all your questions will be answered.

She’s teething!

“Quick, we need teething toys for her to gnaw on, STAT!”

A mother and her child

7. Overcoming a public tantrum

Oh, this one is a doozy. That first time your little one throws herself on the floor and screams blue murder, is just the first public meltdown of many.

If you manage to stay calm and avoid looking at the judgmental eyes of passersby, you will eventually become immune when it happens time and time again.

And like everything else in the parenting game, she will eventually grow out of it and throw you some new curve balls!

The information above is general in nature and the opinion of the writer and should not be taken as medical advice

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